I have the Emote plugin on one audio track and its not muted and is connected all good. But I still cant seem to send any audio from Ableton to it and receive the effected signal back.

You may be misunderstanding how Emote works. The Emote plugin just controls and displays info about the H9000. The plugin itself doesn’t send/receive audio. You’ll want to use Ableton’s External Audio Effect device for that.